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Christmas Shopping for Siblings in The Mom Shop

December 9, 2009 By Angie Kauffman · Disclosure: This Post May Contain Affiliate Links. {I may be compensated if you make a purchase after clicking on my links.}

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I have written about our Christmas “Mom Shop” before, but it seemed like the perfect time of year to talk about it again, especially since my kids are already saying at least a few times a week, “I can’t wait until we do the Mom shop again!” 
 
One of the most vivid memories I have about Christmas growing up was one year when my school had a Christmas shop.  (This was back in the day when they still could have called it a Christmas shop, mind you.)  The idea of this little store is that kids could bring money and shop for their families.  The reason that I remember it so clearly is because I remember the pride and delight I felt to be able to do some shopping all by myself.
 
I realized two years ago that I had never given my own children that same opportunity for a sense of pride and giving come Christmas morning. I knew that I had to remedy that situation.  However, the thought of taking them into a store and asking them to pick out things frightened me.  So, I took a cue from my memory of Christmas shopping at school and carried on with my idea.

The Plan

 
So, two years ago, after a trip to Walmart, I had enough small toys to set up “Mom’s Christmas Shop” in my bedroom. I bought a few gifts that I thought would be appropriate for each child — all costing between $1.48 – $4.98. Despite the various costs, I actually only priced my items right around $1 per item.  (Last year, when the boys were receiving allowance, I charged them closer to the actual item’s price.  However, I continued to look for items that were $5 and under.)  
 
Then, I invited each of our boys (then aged eight and six) to shop without each other. For instance, when Noah came to shop, I had one area of gifts to choose from for Jack and one area of gifts to choose from for Molly. I allowed Noah shop for one gift for each of them, and we worked on wrapping the gifts together. Then, I put away the gifts that were possible for Jack, and I put out the ones for Noah.  I invited Jack up and let him shop and wrap. The boys used money from their own allowances to shop.

Last year, we were excited to allow Molly to shop as well.  Since she was only just barely three when we began this new tradition, we envisioned her trying to keep all of the toys for the boys for herself and throwing a fit.  Because we didn’t allow her to shop, I just picked out an item from her for each of the boys from the leftover toys.

The Benefits
 
One of the things that I really like with this method of shopping is that I can pre-select things that I think are appropriate, and my kids don’t have to be overwhelmed with deciding from a whole store of toys.

I had thought to just return the extras to Walmart for a refund. But, then I realized, “Hey — why not just keep the leftovers to fill their stockings?” (My kids didn’t remember that they are the same.)

 
The Results
 
When Christmas morning has come each year that we have done it, our kids seemed to be literally glowing with pride and anticipation!  While they were thrilled to receive gifts, they definitely were most excited to see their siblings open the gifts that they had chosen.  In a lovely twist, it seemed that the gifts that had come from a sibling became some of the favorite gifts.  Molly cherished the $3 baby doll that came with a bottle, and gave a mild smile to the American Girls Bitty Baby Twins that she got from us.
 
I cannot recommend this method of holiday shopping for siblings enough!  I can already see that it is going to be a cherished family memory in years to come.  And, while gifts may come and go, those memories will be forever.
 
 
 
 
 
 
This post is linked to Works for Me Wednesday and Finer Things Friday.
photo by allerleirau

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Filed Under: Christmas, Family Time Tagged With: intentional parenting

About Angie Kauffman

Angie, mom to three very fun kids, is the founder of Real Life at Home.  With degrees in elementary education (B.A.) and special education (M.S.Ed.), as well as being a former homeschooler, she is passionate about supporting both parents and teachers by providing printables, crafts, and activities to help children learn and grow.

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  1. The Ties that Bind Us says

    December 9, 2009 at 6:23 am

    Great idea! I just brought my kids to the dollar store and gave them all $7. One dollar for each of us (plus the dog). They had a blast and $35 later, there are 35 presents under the tree! They got some great stuff!

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  2. Angela @ HomegrownMom says

    December 9, 2009 at 7:39 am

    This is the coolest idea! I, too, remember our Santa's workshop at school where we got to shop for mom and siblings.

    I am going to do this, for sure 🙂

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  3. Louise says

    December 9, 2009 at 10:31 am

    what a beautiful idea

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  4. Becky @ BoysRuleMyLife says

    December 9, 2009 at 1:30 pm

    LOVE this idea!! I was wondering how to remedy the problem of the Christmas shop my son got to go to in Kindergarten. Thank you!

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  5. Lorin says

    December 9, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    Ang,
    We always did the same thing for their "friend" shopping – and they call it "Mom shop." I would buy quantities of things from Oriental Trading or Target and then they would pick things and wrap for friends : )

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  6. Lorin says

    December 9, 2009 at 1:47 pm

    Sorry if this posts twice…
    We do the same thing (or at least did) and the kids call it Mom's Shop. I got big quantities of items from Oriental Trading (etc) and then they shopped for what they wanted to get their friends. They loved it.

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  7. sweetsweetreality says

    December 9, 2009 at 2:41 pm

    Thanks for sharing. We have 3 children and I think that would be an amazing tradition to start next year! I can look all year for items on sale that would be great.

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  8. nicole says

    December 9, 2009 at 3:01 pm

    I might need to do this. My big kids are definitely old enough to get something out of it. 🙂

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  9. pk says

    December 9, 2009 at 9:28 pm

    What a great idea! I'm sure the kids love it and it is probably more enjoyable for everyone all the way around.

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  10. sunnymum says

    December 10, 2009 at 1:40 am

    Thanks so much for sharing! Can't wait till my little ones get a bit bigger to start this!

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  11. ~Sara says

    December 10, 2009 at 4:50 am

    What a wonderful idea and a great tradition you have started with your kids!

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  12. Jimmie says

    December 10, 2009 at 2:17 pm

    This is so sweet! I remember very clearly doing something like this in a store that was set up maybe for kids of single parents? I was able to pick out a real surprise for my mom, and I still remember the pride it gave me.

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  13. Mandi @ It's come to this says

    December 11, 2009 at 3:40 pm

    That is really great idea!! LOVE the part about not being in a toy story – you're right … way too many choices!!

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  14. shopannies says

    December 11, 2009 at 5:51 pm

    what a great idea I am sure it was fun for both you and the boys

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  15. Amy @ Finer Things says

    December 13, 2009 at 10:21 pm

    So much fun! My kids have been content with the "you give him this, I'll give him that" two choice variety, but as they get older they may need more of a selection.

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